Enjoying freedom and good days
Life has been good for Edwin Ternes since making Touchmark his home in December 2014. “Every day is a good day here,” he says.
For most of his life, Edwin farmed the land originally homesteaded by his grandfather. After his wife passed away in 2000, Edwin found that his days were spent working the farm and watching television. His sons felt he would benefit from being more social, and in fall 2014, they approached him with an idea.
“They asked me if I would try Touchmark, and they offered to pay for one month’s rent.” That December, Edwin moved to Touchmark for a short-term stay. He loved the lifestyle and his active social life at Touchmark! He wasn’t sure, though, if he had the financial means to move permanently. But he was in for a surprise. “I had long-term care insurance. I didn’t know whether it would cover me, but it did!”
A social butterfly
The abundance of social opportunities has been a welcome change from Edwin’s solitary life on the farm. He visits with neighbors while having breakfast and supper in the dining room and keeps himself busy with card games and community-planned activities throughout the day. “I don’t spend a lot of time in my home other than when I’m sleeping,” he says.
“If I want to be alone here, I can, but I like how I just walk out of my door, and I can be with people and do things I like to do. I used to watch way more TV than I do now, because that was my only entertainment. Now I have things I enjoy more.”
Edwin has been impressed with the Touchmark team members and his new neighbors and friends.
“The people who work here are like one big happy family who work together to take care of the residents. You can tell they want to be here. There are a lot of different activities they do for us, and they take us to a lot of different places on the bus.”
Edwin says the residents are like family. “We play a lot of cards; there’s always someone around to play with.” When he’s not playing cards with his neighbors, Edwin can be found participating in the many community events. “I like the beanbag toss; there’s Wii bowling; we have social hours with a few drinks; and sometimes there’s music. I’m not great with dancing, but I do a little of that, too.” Whatever the activity, Edwin is always game when it comes to getting in on the action, whether he’s a pro or a novice.
A little help when needed
Edwin has welcomed the reduced stress that comes with living at Touchmark. “There were a lot of hard things I had to do on the farm. I spent many years sitting on the tractor when it was windy and 30 below. But when you live through hard times, you appreciate when things get better. Now, they do my laundry here. Once a week they clean my apartment. They help with putting my socks on and doing different things that are hard for me to do … You aren’t going to hear any complaints from me!”
When living alone, Edwin ate a diet of convenience rather than sound nutrition. Now he doesn’t have to worry about shopping or cooking as he enjoys nutritious chef-prepared meals twice daily. “I am eating healthier than I was living by myself.”
A very good year
“I’ve said to quite a few people that this was one of my better years in my life,” he says. “When you live on a farm, there are always a lot of worries about making it work. Now I’m free from all that.”
The new lifestyle, reduced stress, and nutritious diet have positively affected Edwin’s well-being. “This past year, I’ve had no health problems, and I didn’t have to work! What more can anybody ask for?”